Elyssa
Crystal Long
Elyssa moved out at age 20 into her own home. She
had two roomates and paid her rent and food plus $50.00 for an allowance.
She volunteered at the Glendale Library where she 'worked' for three
years. She had a year and a half left of school and had perfect
attendance for many years. She would get very upset if she missed
school or had a schedule change.
She was always very happy and would often squeal with
excitement, drawing her arms up to her chest. We planned to put
braces on her teeth this year—our last goal and we did it!
All my dreams came true when she was on her own with personal living
skill staff to aid her in daily living skills with verbal prompts
only all by herself.
From the day she was born, I was told not to get attached
and that she was not going to make it. If she did, she would not
be able to walk or talk and be in a 'vegetable' state. Well, we
showed them even with two severe seizures that, each time, took
the child I knew and left me with one so impaired that we had to
start all over again; each time with more obstacles, more schools,
more therapies. On and on to where she was before she died. My baby
has grown up and she is a beautiful young lady named Elyssa Crystal
Long and she is home with God. We kept cheating Death but know it
is time to go where she belonged from the day she was born. Thank
you for the best 20 years, almost 21, I ever had. Love ya, Celeste
Adele Killoren
A
Poem in loving memory of our child.
THE ARIZONA REPUBLIC—Elyssa
Crystal Long 20, born 12-11-81 in Anchorage Alaska, passed away
at 1:35 p.m. on September 14th of the year 2002. Daughter of Celeste
& Jeff Killoren. She leaves 2 sisters, Meagan 10 & Taylor
7mos.
Elyssa was a preemie at birth 2 lbs. 10ozs. 28 weeks into the pregnancy.
She was a beautiful and strong willed person then and throughout
her life. She had many obstacles that at times seemed impossible.
But she managed somehow to prove to everyone she’s not a quitter
even at the end. I told her I was so proud of her and it’s
okay to leave us now. If you ever met Elyssa just once you would
never forget her: and that smile.
A true blessing from God. We love you Tiger! All her family and
friends are truly going to miss her!
In Loving Memory of my Child.
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